The problem with asking this question is that it assumes that women and men have the same goals when it comes to sex.Guys frequently get hung up on numbers; how many people have you slept with, how quickly can you get a woman to sleep with you. The problem is that men are viewing women through the prism of the male experience: the goal of getting sex as quickly as possible, as easily as possible.After a (long) while being single, I decided I would try the internet dating thing a try.A number of my (hearing) friends have had great success with them. The rest continued talking for a while, but then either tailed off or ‘met someone else’. I made it clear that I was deaf, but iterated that I did not need to bring an interpreter to any dates because I speak. I had one woman email me saying that she understood about being deaf and dating as she had a kid! I even had a terp emailing me telling me that I was really brave for going on a hearing dating site! Yes, you may get fewer responses, but in the long run it is far less hurtful.No reason why not, just never met someone who interested me or was interested in me.But then, I don’t really socialise in deaf circles.
I have been in various relationships with hearing people, but never a deaf person.Then, after drinking about a quarter of our drinks, she suddenly went quiet and strange.