That’s something I learned is it’s very hard to be in a relationship when the both of you are still figuring out life."You cannot change anybody," Zendaya added.
That feeling never left me, and I never let him get as close to me emotionally again." —Anne L., 533.I didn’t sleep with him for over a month after I found out, and the first time I did, I began to cry shortly after we began.I was thinking about him with the other woman and the qualities she had that I didn’t. The crying made me realize this guy hurt me to my core.I felt uncomfortable, unattractive, and it did nothing for me physically. I strived to be over the top, to be sexier than I had been, and even tried things I was against in the past.
Eventually, I discovered the problem was bigger than me—it was about his urges to cheat, and no matter how sexy I acted, I couldn't change that." —La Tossa N., 394.
Hint: If you’re in this position and feel completely freaked, you are so not alone.1.