So people, you don't have to have a mediocre, frustrating sex life just because your spouse wants you to. But, of course, if it works for you it might work for some others. I have average about one or two a day, and more on some days.
If your spouse won't talk about it or isn't willing to change, find someone else, either openly or discreetly. The theory is that the more you use it, the less you lose it!
It is a good thing that women in my family get menopause in their 60's.
My mom is in her 50's and she still gets her periods.
They don't have penis-vagina intercourse, but so what? Now, I'll agree that my wife stopped being interested in intercourse, not to mention all sex, by her age of 50.
Hands, mouths, and sex toys offer many erotically satisfying ways to make love and enjoy orgasm. I'm still sexually active and I'm determined to stay that way for the rest of my life. So all I can say is, thank god for younger women who like healthy and vital older men!
Men over 40 start to notice that arousal takes more time.Even those prepared for age-related sexual changes typically find them disconcerting. Physicians and the news media either ignore sex in the second half of life, or spread misinformation (the Bloomberg report).As a result, many older people are unprepared for the sexual changes aging brings, and instead of adapting, they withdraw from sensual play. I know many people in their seventies and eighties who are actively, happily sexual. I'm 60 and want just as much sex as when I was less than half my age, including intercourse.That's my advice, and men, the way to have a greatly satisfying sex life is for you to postpone your orgasms for days on end. One mechanism is supposedly that you increase your testosterone levels with more frequent orgasms. All I can say he had E/D very early in life and back then there wasn't any thing they could do about it.
Besides, I get too horny to hold off for more than a day in any case. I think this upset him so much that he just didn't want to associate with me ever again. He went into depression,he never wanted to talk to me any more, I was told if I wanted I could leave or find boy or girl friend on the side he didn't care any more.
At this point I should have left him, but I didn't, bad mistake.