You Don't Know Your Own Value This might be one of the most common issues. Do you put up with nonsense expecting that "one day" it will magically change?Do you chase after the bad boys who treat you poorly and only want them more? If so, welcome to the club — you are far from alone. The truth is that there are only two fears in the human condition: one is that you're "not enough," and two is that you won't be loved.
How are you going to get mad at a man who sleeps with other women, if you did not explicitly tell him that you expect monogamy?Yeah, she probably just started showing her true self. Dating only one person before committing and committing too early. The purpose of dating is to have fun and hang out with people you would be interested in getting to know better. Not enough time has passed for you to find out about their criminal past, their problem with gambling or the fact that they don’t want the same things in life that you do.If she showed it in the beginning, the man would have quickly figured out she wasn’t the one for him. When you fail to do this, you end up with all of your eggs in one basket and before you know it, you have wasted months on a man who was never meant to be your boyfriend. Taking the time to get to know someone will allow you to use your head and not your heart in making life-altering decisions. Acting like a wife, when you’re barely his girlfriend. Only date men who meet your criteria and are stable. Even if you have ignored all of the other 9 mistakes, please do not ignore this one.If he’s not willing to be monogamous, leave him be. Let’s say you hate football, but you pretend to like it because it allows you to spend more time with your man.
Or at the very least only have protected sex with him. Cancelling plans with friends and family just to see him. If you’re busy hanging out with the girls Friday night, don’t cancel them just because he wants to come and hang out on your couch. I used to date a man who would keep me on hold, but as soon as he knew I made plans he wanted to insert himself. Or what if you love to eat steak, but he says he’s a Vegan or worse, says he’s not a chubby chaser?Dating is important because it allows people time to meet people and get to know them better.